Damage to the central nervous system Multiple Sclerosis Fear of urinating or becoming too wet Relationship difficulties Fear of getting pregnant How common is Anorgasmia? Generally, it takes women longer than men to get aroused and to have an orgasm, so more time and stimulation may be needed, focused on her. The psychological impact of Anorgasmia Not only can Anorgasmia leave you feeling frustrated, especially when you come tantalisingly close to orgasm, but you may feel deprived of sexual release and intimacy with your partner, which can lead to dissatisfaction in relationships. Partners may lose desire for sex as a result, because helping their partner to achieve an orgasm is a good feeling. If they think they are not able to do this, they may avoid sex and male partners may experience erectile dysfunction ED. Here are some top tips to help you get there: Go back to basics and start getting to know your body and how it responds. You will need privacy, comfort and time.